A year later and a year wiser

Sorry it's been so long since i've last wrote anything. Here's an update.

What has been going on with me?

Last summer was a bummer for me. My gut decided while I liked the SK pot, I didn't think I'd be a match to be his sugar baby. He gave me some valuable career advice which I have followed/will follow though since we're in the same career field. With that and the bummer of not getting a job offer at a company I enjoyed, I went on a depressed spiral. So, I decided to focus mostly on more education and to look for work. The class was drama which will probably talk about in a later post but I had a really great apprenticeship with a non profit,  doing what's in my career field which actually helped me land my current job.

What have I learned so far:

• Being a Sugar is a marathon as apposed to a track meet 
• Go with your gut instincts
• Know your worth 

I still feel like there are things I have to work on until I'm successful as an sb and in many ways I feel like a newbie. 

I hope everyone is doing well. What have I missed? 

What I've been up to and the SD from SkullKrusher Mountain....

Hello everyone, I hope all of you are doing well in the "Sugar Bowl". I'm sorry I haven't updated my journal in a while because I didn't want to until something major happened. Here's what's been going on in my life thus far.






My birthday was this weekend and I had a blast pampering myself and hanging out with family and friends. Maybe a bit too much fun, thank god for coffee :D














I'm still looking for a new job. I have several offers down the pipeline, I'll have to see how that goes.








A fellow I fancied has a new girlfriend. Sigh. What was I thinking? I'll call him the law because he's taking the LSAT's to get into law school. I met him ironically enough at my friends wedding. We clicked and have been friends ever since. I'm genuinely happy for him because he's a wonderful guy. I'll be ok, more disappointed than anything else..

Right when I was about to throw in the sugar towel, I was contacted by a pot I'll call SD tech or maybe SD from skullcrusher mountain. After a few emails and a telephone conversation, I met him at a juice bar and we talked about our lives, what our expectations were and different things we liked (movies etc.) When I left, we huged and he shook my hand, sneaking me a bill for my time.






Pros:

• He's in my chosen field so I feel as though he could be a wealth of information and contacts. 
• We have similar likes 
• He's polite
• He's not a scammer thus far.

Cons:

• The amount is less than I expected. 
• I'd have to travel to the burbs
• While I think we would be great friends, and he'd be a great mentor I don't see him in a lover capacity (he's not ugly or mean, but I have an uneasy feeling, I don't know why.) 

Am I being silly about this? If any of you can give me some insights about your first SD that would be great. Also, I don't dig the concept of P2P, no shade thrown on folks who like it, I figure that if I'm going to be a sex worker, I should at least be one up front and be able to charge a premium for my time.

That's all I can think of at the moment. We shall see what happens. This weekend, I'll be out of town celebrating my friend's birthday.  Take care :)

Lets begin at the beginning...

Hello Sugar world!
My name for privacy purposes is Parker, I'm in my mid-twenties, I'm the only child and the owner of one stubborn Bischon. I live in Chicago, and I'm currently in graduate school. I'm African American.
I'm new to being a sugar baby.I've joined some sites but nothing so far has come of it. Mostly scammers or poofers. I've been afraid to write a first post because I'm so new to this I don't feel like a sugar baby yet and I don't want to jinx myself. I will remain positive.
Other than that, I've been focusing on finding a new job, I'm interviewing this week with a solid company and I hope that goes well.