Monday, May 23, 2011

What I've been up to and the SD from SkullKrusher Mountain....


Hello everyone, I hope all of you are doing well in the "Sugar Bowl". I'm sorry I haven't updated my journal in a while because I didn't want to until something major happened. Here's what's been going on in my life thus far.






My birthday was this weekend and I had a blast pampering myself and hanging out with family and friends. Maybe a bit too much fun, thank god for coffee :D














I'm still looking for a new job. I have several offers down the pipeline, I'll have to see how that goes.








A fellow I fancied has a new girlfriend. Sigh. What was I thinking? I'll call him the law because he's taking the LSAT's to get into law school. I met him ironically enough at my friends wedding. We clicked and have been friends ever since. I'm genuinely happy for him because he's a wonderful guy. I'll be ok, more disappointed than anything else..



Right when I was about to throw in the sugar towel, I was contacted by a pot I'll call SD tech or maybe SD from skullcrusher mountain. After a few emails and a telephone conversation, I met him at a juice bar and we talked about our lives, what our expectations were and different things we liked (movies etc.) When I left, we huged and he shook my hand, sneaking me a bill for my time.






Pros:
  • He's in my chosen field so I feel as though he could be a wealth of information and contacts. 
  • We have similar likes 
  • He's polite
  • He's not a scammer thus far.
Cons:
  • The amount is less than I expected. 
  • I'd have to travel to the burbs
  • While I think we would be great friends, and he'd be a great mentor I don't see him in a lover capacity (he's not ugly or mean, but I have an uneasy feeling, I don't know why.) 
Am I being silly about this? If any of you can give me some insights about your first SD that would be great. Also, I don't dig the concept of P2P, no shade thrown on folks who like it, I figure that if I'm going to be a sex worker, I should at least be one up front and be able to charge a premium for my time.

That's all I can think of at the moment. We shall see what happens. This weekend, I'll be out of town celebrating my friend's birthday.  Take care :)

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Lets begin at the beginning...

Hello Sugar world!
My name for privacy purposes is Parker, I'm in my mid-twenties, I'm the only child and the owner of one stubborn Bischon. I live in Chicago, and I'm currently in graduate school. I'm African American.
I'm new to being a sugar baby.I've joined some sites but nothing so far has come of it. Mostly scammers or poofers. I've been afraid to write a first post because I'm so new to this I don't feel like a sugar baby yet and I don't want to jinx myself. I will remain positive.
Other than that, I've been focusing on finding a new job, I'm interviewing this week with a solid company and I hope that goes well.